Counseling conundrums

[TrentC]

I'm calmer now. I'm not letting him do this to me again. I don't know why I keep going back for more of his crap. I don't want to be seen as a whiner. I have one he!! of a headache right now. He's not gonna be the kind of husband that I need, and I guess I can't be the kind of wife that he needs. We're going around in circles when we talk- same crap on a different day. I just have to face it that it's over-

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Blechhh- my head hurts...

At this point, do I make it an in-house separation until after Christmas? I asked this previously, but at the time I thought we still had a 1% chance of working it out, is the answer still the same? Get out now?

Get out now.

He has been emotionally abusive to you, and you should not stand for it one second longer than you have to. Seriously.

I would not take the chance that he will not turn physically abusive once you've made it clear that you will not be his slave/f*ckbuddy/bartered goods.