Hi CTH, Just checking in to see how you're doing. I really appreciate you stopping by my thread recently. You sound like you're doing what you need to do, getting a L, looking at finances etc. All necessary things to protect yourself. Also having some fun! That is really important too. Though with kids I'm sure much harder to do. I can't really address your issues re: W not taking your kids when suppossed to but think what others posted here makes sense. Do you have any family who can help you watch the kids if you get in another jam at work, til you get that arrangement legalized?
I am going through the separating finances stuff, ugghhh. Not fun. Wishing you strength through the process. Thanks again for your words of encouragement, you have my support.