Ok, I am just not getting this kitty picture thing.
Does he think that kitty pictures make up for the fact that he's gone....?....or what?...huh.....?
It would annoy the sh!t outta me, and I would not respond to stupid kitty pictures.
I suspect that he's afraid to reach out in a genuine manner, so he's sending her harmless stuff as a method of temperature-taking.
I agree. Start responding as ready2change suggested -- polite but don't let him rope you into meaningless conversation. When he has something important to say, he will.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
