I told her, I'm not angry with you anymore, you're right that we need to move on with the D. I can be your friend, we can work through this together. So, just making this as productive and easy as possible.
Way back at the beginning a friend told me it's easier to get over someone when you have someone.
Yea but not when your still married.... And it is using someone. BillM. As with any decision one makes. DB this new friend of yours. Detach and see if the feelings are there in a few weeks. If they are do it again for a few weeks. Take it real slow. Its very easy to get attached right now.
I always read that people really fall apart after the breakup of the relationship after the divorce.
It is an extra complication when emotions get the best of us.
