Can I save my marriage?

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You are right Citygirl. I do have HUGE expectations now after that day, and yesterday too, the whole family outing to the hockey game and having supper was something we did that three weeks ago was non existing. So it has given me these great expectations, and now i'm in trouble cause I'm living because of them. I was doing so well, obviously making changes and they were lasting and I felt good about it. And I felt good that my H was noticing but now that he has given me that little bit, i'm stuck again. Back to analyzing, and wishing and wanting...what a process this is! I do need to try and let go of those expectations but I just don't know how to right now. I will continue to GAL, I just feel like even while doing so I am still waiting for the day when I will see him again and hopefully get more great comments or actions from him.

Trent, you're right, he is totally testing my boundaries. He is bringing up things that he is doing while we are apart to see my reactions. Which in the past may have been bad but are now good. I can only hope that he eventually likes what he sees and decided to come home.