Yes Mishka...Im much better by text! No emotion there...although he does know I can get an attitude by texting too!!
Today, he calls me at lunch...I didnt get the call, so I called him back. He was busy and said he would call me back in a couple of minutes...ok, so he did. Know what he said???
"OK, I said I would call you back"
??Ok he called me first. He had nothing else to say....He acted as if it had been me calling him.
Sometimes I just dont get him....
Kissak
"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3 M-37 H-37 S-10, D-15 M- 1993 First bomb- 12/23/06 Came and went too MANY times! Gone again 10-25-10
"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3 M-37 H-37 S-10, D-15 M- 1993 First bomb- 12/23/06 Came and went too MANY times! Gone again 10-25-10
I am so excited my friends!! I have only 18 more pounds to go!! AFter battling my weight my whole life! And I did it all on my own!! Well, with Gods help and my friends!!!
I am feeling good lately, aside from my H's confusing state of mind, Im good!
Kissak
"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3 M-37 H-37 S-10, D-15 M- 1993 First bomb- 12/23/06 Came and went too MANY times! Gone again 10-25-10
Thanks Mishka...Hot Mama though? lol...ok Ill take it!
Cagz....Yes, we are at a different place now! It feels good most of the time, although I wish it could be like it use too. But all we can do is keeping on looking up!
Kissak
"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3 M-37 H-37 S-10, D-15 M- 1993 First bomb- 12/23/06 Came and went too MANY times! Gone again 10-25-10
My d13 - I only have 5 more years of her truly in the house...I said I sure hope God doesn't want for me to be alone. BUT I guess if He does.. then He will make be alone complete and good.
I too wish for what was..but can't stay there long too much pain!!
M-20 years/BOMB 12/24/06 Moved out 3/12/07 D final 7/30/2008 finding myself again
WEll, even though I love coming to this board to vent or get advice....Im soooo glad I dont come here very often anymore!
Its nice to be in a place where you are OK...or just better than ok. I feel for those who are just coming here and learning how to cope and handle things. So glad Im in a much better place now.
I did have my H call me today to tell me news from work...that he may be getting a promotion. Good that he calls me about stuff like this now.
I have to say that us getting back together came up last week. Really by accident....just general conversation. But that was it.....we talked about 10 minutes just standing in the living room. He gave me a hug, then left...nothing else has been said since then.
He still isnt ready. What scares me is that I could care less either way. Im not sure if thats good or bad. But Im really ok with what ever happens.
Truly I believe he is still hung up on that OW....even though she has clearly moved on, he still misses their friendship.
But life is good....had a comment today on my FB that Lifes number one rule was...Life isnt fair, but it's still good.
Hope all my friends are doing well.
Kissak
"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3 M-37 H-37 S-10, D-15 M- 1993 First bomb- 12/23/06 Came and went too MANY times! Gone again 10-25-10
I hear ya on not coming here every day. I like to drop in and see what's up with everyone I follow, but I don't always post every time unless I have something to share.
It is good to be ok or better than ok and not need as much support. I'm getting there.
Glad things are going well for you. Not caring one way or the other if your H comes back or not could be the definition of detachment!
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
