Treese, Learn to keep some things close to the vest. You got the mail from the bank. I would have kept it for a while just to see if he would inquire about it. I do find it quite interesting that he used your home address for this. Nothing is done by accident, he wanted your to get it and call him on it. He didn't have the guts to tell you he had opened another account, so what better way than for the mail to come to you.
I know you were angry about it, but choose your battles. Some battles are worth the wait...
I'm glad you and the kids had a good weekend. That is all that matters.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
