Another waw/mlc and I need support

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Thanks all for the advice and support.

Mach, you are right. My head is spinning from this, but you give great advice. I try not to take it personally and let what she says run off my back. You said IF she is MLC. Does one ever know? We were both seeing an IC and he seemed to think she was possibly bipolar and manic right now. Is there a difference?

My head is mostly in a good place but I have to admit that I still would like this to turn out wih us back together and I look for signs that she is progressing through whatever it is that she is going through. I have accepted that this is her journey to go through and I shouldn't try to shorten the trip. I am using this time to work on myself. Already colleagues at work are noticing that I seem to be more enlightened as I think I have changed on a deeper level in addition to the more visible changes (-30 lbs).

I'm so grateful that this site exists and is frequented by such giving peolppe to help all of us through this most difficult stage.