He doesn’t see me becoming the confident person that he wants me to be, . . . He kept going on about that he knows I’m still scared of new situations and new people . . . I feel like he still sees ME, my basic personality and spirit, as a let down- I'll never be good enough or confident enough.
He wants confidence? . . . well show him confidence.
Tell him that you have decided that you no longer want to be married to him. Show him that you are not afraid to lose him. Show him that you are confident that you will be perfectly fine without him. And, that if you choose, you are certain that you can find many men who would cherish you and never want to share you.
