I can take care of myself now- I got my paralegal certificate to add to my BA and I have a good job now with it. The SAHM situation was a few years ago.
That's good to hear.
Listen to Gardener; your situation is not unique and there are lots of resources to help abused spouses.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement