Coach had an even better one about his own successful busted divorce with Greek. It was entitled FILM STUDY - WHAT WORKED.
If I remember correctly, the film reference was acknowledging that his (all) DBing is like the movie Groundhog Day:Ya just keep repeating the exact same day over and over, screwing it up later and later in each day until finally you get it all right and do it all right for the right reasons and in the right sequence.
It was all great advice. I remember it being peppered repeatedly throughout with: "Worked on myself. Worked on myself. Worked on myself."
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac