GET OUT OF THE HOUSE AND GO DARK FOR AWHILE. Tell the kids where they can reach you if they need you, but doggone it, guy, get away and give yourself a breather. You need to get away from her drama so you can breathe deeply and get your head cleared.
Leave for at least a week, not just the weekend. I hope you can arrange this.
Corri
I'll have to try and work out the logistics of such a split. It would be hard I think. I have a cousin on the other end of town who said I could crash with him. But there are other factors. I will have to study on it.
I feel a bit better than earlier. I went to lunch with a couple of the ladies in the office. This will make the 3rd or 4th lunch I've gone with them. Prior to this incident, I have had to limit my female contact for fear of being accused of cheating. It was refreshing and it was good to hear that these women think what she did/is doing was foul.
The girl decided to tell me more stuff, she said her mom told her that I want her to give me a large sum of money and wanted to know why. I'm told not to discuss this stuff with them but she has free reign. It's now clear to me she is trying to justify her nonsense to everyone with lies, lies by ommsion and distorting facts. Yes I told her I would like to have a chunk of cash if I have to leave the house I provided. I paid in the over $13,000 down on this house while she only laid down $1000. She claims she furnished the house so that should balance things out. Furniture is useless without a place to put it.
She also told the kids she wasn't cheating while sitting in the car in the dark parking lot with a guy who didn't put a ring on her finger. Well maybe I happened upon things before they got started. Another thought that occured to me was they could have been smoking dope. That would explain the missing money and the bizzare behavior. To add to her crazy behavior, she told me that she wants me to take her cat of 12 years with me or she would take her to a shelter. Over the past year, she has always said the cat likes me more than her because she sleeps on my chest. She hated that. Now she says the "cat hate her." A couple months ago, the kids "love you more than me, you're turning my kids against me." Extreme paranoia I would say. Of course me having an affair with my bosses daughter and getting fired for it is the talk of her world and friends. She's heard me mention the bosses daughter's because the come to the office a lot and were nice kids. I guess I said there names too many times. Problem is, they are aged 9,11 and 16. Not affair material. I like telling people that angle of it.
At any rate, I ramble again. Just venting. I'm still having problems with the outsider(the portly cop) saying the girl shouldn't be home with me by herself. ASSuming he said that and not her. At this point, everything out of her mouth is a lie. People have questioned why she would want a copy of my letter to keep. I emailed a copy to her job. She was able to quote from it to support her nonsense. It was my hope that she read that letter a couple time and maybe.... Well, I know a letter is a violation. If things weren't so funky on Monday, I probably wouldn't have let her see it.
I think that letter may have her so messed up right now. I keep looking in the local paper for my name in the divorce column. I guess I'll cut it out and put it with our wedding announcement.
'nuff rambling. I'm going to the comic book store. I haven't been there for a while. It will be good to go hang with the geeks for a second. But all things considered, maybe I better not get my normal Punisher comics. That may feed into the crazy Blackrook scenario.
