Are you trying to introduce logic, morality, or maybe emotion?
Won't that cost you MLC points?
A great question though. That vow must stand for something. People need a constant in turbulant times; a lighthouse in the storm. Surviving a spouse in MLC becomes more than just trying not to drown, or repeating a promise. Many people find themself unable to "fix" the situation; but still needing to "do" something.
This is a great place to learn about taking action, and turning emotion into action. Changing ourselves by becoming the person and parent we were meant to be is one action we still own. The rest is not ours alone.
But why lay under the bus when the driver's seat is empty?
