Doesn't it suck having to do all the work when you weren't even the one that wanted the D in the first place?? XH wouldn't have filed until he had to...I think it made him feel like the bad guy and this way, he could blame it on me. He already has said things to his family like "she was the one who filed." Such BS but whatever, I needed to move on and couldn't do so with a clear consious while still married.
Have fun on the trip! I tried to stay friends with the ex in-laws but in the end it just didn't work for me. Sounds like it is working for you, have fun!!
