Kept it simple again and gave H the info to contact the two recommended counselors and he chose one and no other info. I guess he left it to me to set it all up? This feels like a dance. Baby steps.

I'm happy with the one he chose because in the phone conversations I've had with her I'm impressed. I know H chose her because her (adjusted) fee is so much lower than the other one although I know he wanted a male C.

Now I'm just concerned with what I'll say in the MC. From what I've read, I'm just supposed to validate and understand? Nothing else? Seems like I'm just supposed to let him express himself and get all his anger and resentment out at me while I sit and take it. Do I have that right?


M40, H39
M17 T20
D13, S12
H moved out 05/09
D filed 1/10