Counseling conundrums

[Gardener]

his biggest gripe is my lack of confidence. He says he can't deal with it anymore and is tired of trying to help me with it. Problem is that he's the only one who sees a problem. I can't make his comments and observations mesh with my perceptions.

Wha'?? WTF? Head games! Totally non-sensical to keep you off balance and maintain your low confidence.w

And I can't understand why he was willing to share me to begin with.

Perhaps more importantly, why were you willing to be "shared"?

Since he got his fair share of playtime with others, maybe it was just "sanctioned cheating" in his mind all along.

I understand what you're trying to say, here, but I don't think that's what he was doing in his mind re: swinging. Sounds like he would've, could've and probably did get plenty on the side on his own without that "Sanction"

Spy Bunny, I apologize for being blunter than I have ever been to anyone on this board:

He is a loser.
Lose him.