Yes Blackie you should definately continue to DB. All this is a big trauma and very emotional. Don't take too much notice of anything your W says or does right now. Who would act well under such circumstances, even if they are mainly of her own making. Concentrate on yourself. Give both of you some time to make sensible decisions and talk calmly. If she asks you, be honest about how you feel, but don't push it on her. People do continue to DB after a divorce so don't give up hope at all. Have you read the advice on the link I posted to Cloudnine recently? I found this very insightful. Look after yourself. Why not make some goals? I did this earlier it was kind of helpful.
