Lol. Thanks. It does make it easier knowing that I am not alone. I certainly wish he would quit lying to me because really what is the point anymore? He told me, "I will never get married again". Plain bs there.
Maybe he was being nice about Halloween because of this grand plan of his. I don't know, not my problem anymore. Now will he stay out of my life???
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
I certainly wish he would quit lying to me because really what is the point anymore? He told me, "I will never get married again". Plain bs there.
Hey, cheaters always lie you know.
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I don't know, not my problem anymore. Now will he stay out of my life???
My guess is no, he won't stay out of your life. But, maybe now you can be less nice to him? which I think you really have been too nice. WAS see nice and think pushover.
I don't think I am very good at being a witch with a "B". I am sure I can be one but even when I think I come across like that, people don't seem to notice much.
I try to just be civil and not talk to him more than necessary. I rarely e-mail him. Haven't heard a peep out of the rat today but I suppose that is expected.
I think I will have to switch to gorilla glue to keep myself together because he keeps knocking me apart.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
I know it's awful to keep feelig like Humpty Dumpty all the time.
It's so unfortunate that our former spouses could care less about the constant pain they cause for us. We, on the other hand, can't seem to phase them one way or the other.
As everyone here seems so fond of saying....it is what it is.
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
You really want to crash a wedding huh? lol I remember right after the divorce he wrote on FB that he was in a relationship. Then about a week later he was single and then about a month later he was in a relationship with her. I think she was trying to get him to realize how tacky he looked to be in a relationship right at the time of your divorce. I guess they are still trying to get people to belive that neither of them were cheating during their marriages.
Pitiful.
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
Oh hon! That's such an awful shock! How tacky. I don't know how I'd react if I heard that - not that he would have any reason to bother telling me since we don't have kids together and he hasn't spoken to me in months.
My STBXH and the main OW (SBW as we nicknamed her (short for some words I can't type out)) also did that crap.
I was gonna change my status to D on facebook, but it's not an option anymore for some reason. Single doesn't feel right since I am dating someone, but I don't want to put in a relationship yet either. Maybe I'll leave it at "it's complicated" which is what it's been for almost 2 years lol.
I love the wedding crasher idea! I'll be in the west coast chapter!
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
I don't have the relationship part showing on FB, don't want questions either way and so this takes care of it. My ex has never been great at some of those sensitivity type things...think Brad Pitt without the looks.
If I was paying alimony or something I could celebrate but instead I have to deal with more hurt and betrayal on behalf of the kids part. They will probably be fine after a few weeks. It is just that it took this long to get them where they were finally starting to feel good.
Let's crash a wedding of someone I don't know, that might be fun.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
