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She sounds very immature and selfish. Has she always been that way or did something change?


She's always been immature in that when she doesn't get her way she pitches a fit in some shape or form. I guess you could consider her selfish from that aspect also. She's either super sweet and giving or she's the extreme opposite, a super "B". There's no in between, no consistency. It's tiring at times. I would say a more accurate despcription would be controlling and angry.

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I dont get what you see in her. Was her carefree, spontaneous personality what attracted you to her originally?


I'm not sure at this point. Let's see, she was very caring, generous, and loving. Not perfection or anything but she had her good points. I guess what it boils down to is that I didn't realize her unbelievable need to be in control of everything and I mean everything and the reaction and/or behavior she exhibited when she didn't get her way or things didn't go the way she wanted. Probably something I could work to influence change in if she hadn't gone and done what she has done. Now, I'm not sure I want to.


M-41
ex-W-40
Together--17 years
SS-20
D-14
Bomb--2 Feb 09
WAW--6 Feb 09
Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!!
ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!!
Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!