Depressive WAW or Depressive MLC?- both with an EA

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Should I ask her to go with me and the boys to see a local yearly attraction or not. She will refuse to go.So why ask. But if I don't ask it will annoy her and give her further reason to dislike me. But there again, it will show I am trying to move on and do things without her.

She will be annoyed with you no matter what you decide. Make the best decision for YOU. This is how I would handle it:

1) Tell her "The boys and I are going to XYZ on XYZDay".
2) Wait, wait, wait. If she wants to go, she will let you know. I think it is better for her to miss you......

Should I tell her where I am going on Thursday night

DO NOT TELL HER WHERE YOU ARE GOING. If she asks, "Out with friends". Short, vague answer. DO NOT BE BORING, Be mysterious.