I really didn't want an out. I wanted him to say that he would commit to me, and only me, and love me 100%.
Sorry, Bunny. He never will.
I agree with Gardener's last two posts.
He doesn't want an exclusive relationship with just you. So if the swinging lifestyle is not for you, don't do it. Find someone who will love you and only you. You deserve it.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
