What if the MLCer doesn't like themself? What if they had very low self esteem and repressed depression that existed a long time ago? What if we didn't see it, and because of that, may have unwittingly contributed to it?
What if there are times the MLCer can't hide from the reality of their actions and it makes them really p!ssed ... but not at themself? What if they prefer to blame others, and mostly whoever is closest ... like you? What if re-writing history was a self medicating tool to shift blame away and justify insanity?
If any or all of that seemed to apply, what do you think would happen if you tried to argue or attempt to use logic?
What if she says "turn left" and you do? Would she just say that proves some bizare point she just came up with? What if you turned right? Well there you go ... just like she said!