Thank you so very much for putting your guns in a safe place. I was so relieved when I read that. Your friend gave you good advice when you kept the phone line open while you nad the W talked last night. Sounds to me that she is willing to do about anything right now to make the sitch worse. Don't give her any reason to add fuel to the fire. You have to stay calm and cool no matter what.
Talk to a lawyer and get advice right away. You need to know options right now. W is willing to involve cops, not a good sign for your safety. Moving out might take off some of the pressure and tension, so try to find a safe place to be for a bit. Then see how things are.
Right now you have to see to your safety and sanity. See if the sitch cools off some before thinking that there may be a future. This is the time to take it minute by minute. Going dark is a good idea right now. Distance and no communication might be the best option even though it is hard.
If she questions why people can't love her she has to find that out herself, maybe the hard way.
