"I appreciate that you are looking out for me and my well-being, but you have to understand that this is my spouse and my marriage we are talking about, and I will deal with it as I choose. If you can't be supportive of my choice, then I see no reason we should discuss it any further."
Excellent!
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
