Gima, Relax if you can and don't sweat the small stuff. Nothing you do or say will have a significant influence at this point. Stick to working on yourself like you have in the past.
Rings or no rings, call or no call, you'll drive yourself nuts. I know cause I've done it!
_________________________ Me-41 W-39 M-15 yrs T-17 yrs D-12 S-9 S-8 B 5/08 S 1/09
She has worn her wedding band every day. Not her engagement ring, but her band. She even said she did this out of respect for me.
Has she said that since you've taken yours off? If so, she's not telling you she does it out of respect for you, it may be her way of letting you know she feels disrespected about you taking yours off.
Originally Posted By: givingitmyall
I am very puzzled about the ring for her. I think the most likely reason is she does not want to have to discuss this with other people.
You're probably right. In certain ways she has struck me over the months as a very "keeping up appearances" kind of woman. 'Course, as always, I could be wrong on both points.
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
She has worn her wedding band every day. Not her engagement ring, but her band. She even said she did this out of respect for me.
Has she said that since you've taken yours off? If so, she's not telling you she does it out of respect for you, it may be her way of letting you know she feels disrespected about you taking yours off.
Originally Posted By: givingitmyall
I am very puzzled about the ring for her. I think the most likely reason is she does not want to have to discuss this with other people.
You're probably right. In certain ways she has struck me over the months as a very "keeping up appearances" kind of woman. 'Course, as always, I could be wrong on both points.
No, Gardener, I think you are correct. Appearances are VERY big to her.
And, yes, she said the bit about wearing her ring out od respect for me last night, in the context of telling me its disrespectful for me to take mine off.
There's a flag down on the play! Aw, c'mon. Inside jokes, obscure references are unfair!
Minding the pedestrians, Hyacinth.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
OMG Greek! I almost said something about Hyacinth but wasn't sure how many here knew anything about "Keeping Up Appearances" so figured it might be lost on everyone.
Personally, I identify better with Daisy! She's a total mess and so am I. LOL!
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
She's a total mess and so am I. LOL!