I agree with you 100% however I am learning the hard way as well. Because I tried to expose the affair in the beginning thinking it would end quicker that way, more then a few people know what is going on and not a day goes by that I don't hear it from someone. Now I no longer discuss it with anyone but you all and my Pastor however it is still thrown out there at almost any chance.
As I said to my Mother this morning - Any discussion about H/our marriage/our sitch is off the table and I refuse to talk about it in any way...To which she replied, I have a bad attitude...I definately need to find a new place to live lol
May All Who Seek To Take My Life Be Put To Shame And Confusion; May All Who Desire My Ruin Be Turned Back In Disgrace. ~Psalm 40:14~