It is nice to be able to understand this but honestly, trying to will drive you absolutely crazy.
Recognize the behavior, understand that it is MLC and just go with that….You will spin a lot less.
I posted this on my other thread but it bears repeating. Something I received from someone who has been on both sides of the fence.
Thank you to the person who shared this with me.
"Coming out of the MLC tunnel is very painful for the MLCer and that explains all the stops and starts. Denial is such a massive player in a MLC - and I swear it fights tooth and nail to keep the MLCer deluded.
You might find it is very hard to be the strong, enlightened one at this point. It's just so NOT FAIR - lol. But with a little faith, perseverance and luck - you can do this."
"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox
