Venting here - H got all upset last WEd. when he had to be home, per our agreement, by 4:30 so I could go to my support group. But last night when S said he wanted to go flyinhg (H is a pilot), H makes plans to pick up S at 2:30 to go flying for the rest of the day.
I'm really p.o.ed that he's made a big deal out of not having any time to himself because of work, and then just takes off early today. He also did not ask me what my plans w S were.
And this weekend he did not let me know what time he would be here, he just showed up. H has also told me that the nights he's here to be with S, he does not want me "just coming and going" but want to know specifically my plans.
I'm feeling really jerked around. I know that if I call him and express these things, it will be more of an excuse to just slam me. But he's being so unfair. Advice?