Can I save my marriage?

[TrentC]

I just don't know what to think about this? Is it normal for him to be so affectionate friday and then not at all? I just want to know what's going through his mind?

He's probably not sure himself. He's going to test your boundaries to see what he is or is not allowed to do (see my comments on the other thread on how to handle that).

After such a breakthrough, how long is it going to take for him to finally come to me with the R talk? Yes i know, impatience is playing a part here. But I'm struggling.

It will take as long as it takes for him to decide to change. This is a process that can take months, and is dependant on how successful you are at GAL and maintaining boundaries.

We have no control over our spouses, all we can do is influence their behavior with our own.