How does one detach. Bomb Dropped on me a month with the discovery of EA email. She totally denies that she is having an affair. Evidence suggests that it is PA. I have read the book. We don't talk about it any more, she is not talking s or d, but is paying down debt. We are still in same bed. She changed all passwords. I am not snooping or spying. Doing 180s and GAL. I love her, want R to work But at a loss on detaching. Any pointers???
