Braveheart I hear you my friend, but I think you have got the wrong impression, maybe typing it on here and others reading it sends the wrong impression. What I would like everyone to know and understand is the fact that I will not have ex back, yes I could be his friend and be there for him as a freind should he fall on his arse so to speak, I dont think he would want to come back to me after all he as done, and to be quite honest he as been one bad and horrible man, hopefully he sees that someday. what I merely am hoping for is that this man and his son do have a reasonable relationship, and I also hope the [censored] hits the fan with wifey, not to see him have a broken marriage but just so he turns the corner and at least comes out of this with something, whether it be our former home before it is repossessed, or merely a good relationship with his son, yes I admit I feel sorry for this man, he doesnt and I mean doesnt deserve what is coming to him, whatever he did to us he did for a reason, that was his choice, but I can assure you I am not here waiting for his return, I have moved on with my life and am quite enjoying the freedom and all else that goes with it, having ex back is a big no no
Just to update that son is really enjoying doing his work experience work, ex is picking him up and dropping him off, ex asks for me to go out and have a chat on dropping son off, now managing eye contact and smiles and the odd laugh, have to say though those eyes are not the same colour or glistening like they used to be, strange how the eyes change colour. but anyhow things going well.
Funny how when kids are happy, then mums happy too. I can tell you are anyway.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
BeingMe, you have hit the nail on the head, my son means the world to me and as you say when he is happy I am also happy, and at the moment we are both very happy
My ex's eyes looked so old today. He looked older than his father. They still looked so vacant too.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
took son to doctors yesterday as he is suffering with his chest, doctor as diagnosed asthma, his dad also as asthma. text ex to tell him as he had asked me to let him know, he phoned up over an hour later to ask how son is. then he partakes to tell me that asthma is caused by stress etc, well i do wonder what as brought that on then dad. ex said he hadn phoned straight away because he hadnt had a minute to himself all day, such a liar he is not working or anything, think he just delayed phoning as he cant handle son being poorly, whatever.
theses mlcers become such unavailable parents I hope your son is feeling better My son also gets asthma at times colds, stress. weather changes allergies It is a difficult time, especially alone Maybe one could excuse a spouse from leaving a M there is no excuse to continually be a poor parent peace
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow
I can tell you are anyway.