: ) I have about 7 thousands posts...so. Hell I wouldn't want to read it. There are in the MLC archives.
I can sum up. Together 6 years. Married 3 Two boys. (at the time 10 and 6) Wife had an MLC. I help destroy her self esteem by getting lost in computer games and generally not being around. Like most people unaware of how bad it was getting and caught totally off guard. W had affair with at the time best friend. Seperated. She begged one last chance. Began Piecing. Lived seperately for over a year, but acted like we were married. Rebuilt our marriage. Better than ever...seriously better than ever.
My first posts all are ...wide eyed naive wonder and fluffy bunny hope. ; ). But I always knew I would be that number 1 in the 1 in a million or billion or gazillion.
My experience as an LBS is with MLC. But I was a WAH once as well.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK