The whole thing is "fishy". It's a mess. That's why I sometimes say "I want it over". At least life without my wife will be simpler.
I think she believes she may physically feel better after the tension of being married is over.
The whole thing seems fishy because there are seriously dysfunctional things going on in your family. Alcohol abuse seems to be near the top of the list. Not saying that to offend, but geez, there is plenty of mention of who's drunk when. Even your vacation plans are about drinking.
No marriage advice is going to fix the problem when the problems are either caused or exacerbated by alcohol. I'd have to go back and check but wasn't your wife drunk and suicidal at the beginning of this thread?
