Piecing is hard because not only are you dealing with the aftermath of shock and grief of the S, difficult feelings of insecurity or jealousy, whatever, to do with any ow, but also, you are still having to deal with all the issues that were always there in the R before all of this happened and with a partner who may not be that emotionally healthy anyway! And maybe I still have a way to go to forgive him.
That is very insightful! I think that's why its easier to start a new R than fix an old one. Course, if you don't fix your issues, that one won't be any more successful.
Good for you two for putting all this effort into it! It sounds like, most days, it's paid off a hundredfold.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
