Get rid of them. Don't need those reminders hanging around.
My W still has 2 things from OM, a glass he bought her while on vacation with his family and directions he sent her to his new place after he left the area.
W has agreed to get rid of the glass, has it in a bag at work to bring home so I can DESTROY it. I don't think she even remembers the directions are in her purse so if I said anything to her about them, she'd not like it that I was in her purse (and I haven't been for about 6 months), so that one is touchy.
She still has her favorite pair of A undies that NEED to go. W recognizes what they do to me just seeing them and hasn't warn them in probably 9 months, but they're still in her undies drawer.
The nice thing is that she DOES finally recognize that those are things that really affect me and has agreed to get rid of them.
Ok, that was an awful long way to say get rid of them.
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.
