Yes I am a teacher, but this time luckily I did not have to take off. So far I have taken off twice due to him being sick this year, which does not seem like much but we are on trimesters so it is a lot for me. H never takes off because I am more organized and being at the high school most days it is easier for me to take off because I already have everything ready, plus S likes to be with me when sick and with H not being home or responding to texts or calls I just assume take the day off and leave him out of it.

I am not talking to H for a while because I will just yell at him, which is not good for helping him do better. Although I know ignoring him will not help either, it is the lesser of two evils. I am not going to ask for anything. He chose to leave and I can live without him. I proved that for 5.5 months and I can do it again. I ordered the books one called; Love, Honor, and Forgive, DR because I had borrowed that from the library and can just give it to H, and lastly the book my mentor suggested which I cannot remember right now. They should be to me by Thursday. I really need to get over the anger. My class this summer said that it takes 58 hours to get over angry emotions (get the hormones out of your system) when going unresolved. It does not help that H keeps doing stuff to make me angry again. Hopefully today will be uneventful and so will tomorrow so maybe by Wednesday I feel better. This week is only three days for me at work then a long 4-day weekend.

Anyone have suggestions for cheap things to do with my two year old S. We live in northwestern IN and I would love to do something fun with him over the weekend. I have an extra pay this month so I can afford a little expense and don't mind driving a little ways. THANKS!


Me29 S3
H left 4/1/09
I file 8/2/10
Divorce final 5/17/11
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