You may not be pursuing but, you are doing nice things here and there so she knows you still want the R. You are still giving her space to work through stuff at the same time. hasn't it been better since you quit "rubbing her nose in it" as you put it. I know it seems to be still going against what you think you need to do but that what dbing is partly about, doing something differant. and not doing what isn't working.
JAK
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