As you know, it's just so hard to talk to a WAS or look them in the face when all you see is cold calculation.
Yes, I do know what you mean. Look right back at that face with as much confidence and happiness as you can muster. Let her think you are happily moving on, and just fine about it. Was hard for me at first, when she acted like she was happy we were both moving on so well. Slowly I noticed her starting to reach out just a little bit. She seemed to be around me more, and wanted to talk to me, wanted my opinion on things and wanted to share her little life events with me, especially about the kids. Movement was almost imperceptibly slow, making it so frustrating.
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I spent this weekend in Chicago with an old HS friend and then Sunday in Cincy. The Chicago trip was such fun I'm planning on going back in December or January.
Awesome! This is exactly what you should be doing. Progess will happen on your W's timetable, not yours, so at least try to enjoy your freedom in the mean time.
