It is insane Cagz. Thank god I am a good saver.

Oh yeah, I forgot to mention, OW moved in to ex's house.
Makes me sick, but nothing I did not expect. Good example, they are.

Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11