Just caught up with your post. Remember he is clearly not thinking at all. Just when you think they can't humiliate themselves more they do it.

Remember, this will not be a marriage that god condones, therefore it will be like a living hell for them both.

I have come to realize that these guys are in such need of attention, love, affirmation, that they will do anything to get it, it clouds rational thought.

I am sorry you have to go through this, he is an idiot.

Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11