I'm trying to look at the upside here. If he is out of town for most of the next two years and away most of the time, I get some financial stability and him out of my hair OR, if he does want to give "us" a chance, perhaps I take the leap and go to tropical isle and write and have an adventure with my children and we give it a shot...it is still not a full head on confrontation with "reality" but that may never happen.
If you join him in the fog, what do you gain and what do you lose?
AKA: "Ben the school teacher" --- Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20 Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08 My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09 W w/OM 6/09-11/09
