Thanks Jiji. We'll see what happens. I have a little 'tude with the little lady today for a couple reason. One perceived the other real. The perceived reason: we have a guy who lives down from us. He's disabled due to a back injury. He's on meds for that and something that's going wrong in his head. Earlier this summer, his wife thought he was suicidal. She of course called the police who took him out and to the hospital. She stuck by him and has through thick and thin. This morning, I was awaken by an explosion or at leat what I thought was one. Well this guy was banging on the neighbor's door saying his house was full of gas. No gas, he's just not taking his meds again. But there she is, his wife honoring her vows to him, in sickness and health, better or worse. I don't know what goes on inside their home, but from the outside, I see a woman who is standing by her guy who is major sick. I have a W who doesn't seem to want to do this. Of course, my attitude may change in the next hour. The second reason is I notice she has spent a portion of the mortgage money I put in her account. For what, I don't know. This will be a repeat of the first quarter when she didn't have her end of the mortgage for whatever reason. The next several months to make up for at least 2 of these occasions, my out of pocket per month increased by $600.00. Of course, my anger increaed too. She then takes a trip to the Bahamas with a girlfriend. She claims the trip was free.
I'm holding this mess in and may go to the shooting range later to get it out. But I had to vent and this is a good place to do it.
Her and the kids are leaving again to go to a kid's bday party. She wanted to know if I was going to cook today. I usually make 2 big things that will stetch the week. Well, I no house cook. I'm going out to do something myself. I shouldn't be this way but I am. Why would she think I would want to stay home by myself and cook for people who aren't here. Deep breath.
To make things worse, she talked to the BIL and is now upset because she wasn't invited to a baptism today. Now, she's on the phone mad as my SIL. Her family stuff always creates blow back for me.
