Another great poster on here, Thinker, talked his wife into Retroville and, even though he tried not to, put so much emotional weight into the weekend that when his W sabotaged it by just going through the emotions it actually knocked him back several steps.
I'd say no card. I'm also wondering about the wedding ring. She sees some significance in it. My W stopped wearing it more than a year ago and -- I am sad to say -- did not realize it for several months. I was lost in my own fog.
I forget. Is she wearing hers? If she is then keep yours on. If she's not, take yours off.
She has worn her wedding band every day. Not her engagement ring, but her band. She even said she did this out of respect for me. Not saying I buy that, just what she said.
I am very puzzled about the ring for her. I think the most likely reason is she does not want to have to discuss this with other people.
