My Intro: Thanks for Reading!

[RedSoxFan]

The concept that there is nothing I can do to bring her back is frankly not naturally within my grasp of reason. Or perhaps more accurately stated, I shouldn't try to do anything to bring her back because that is manipulative and controlling. To me that feels more like a moral position. So is being right for the sake of being right always the best path??

I'm clearly missing the tools that others have to love unconditionally without being controlling. I hope with time I can figure this out so that I might have healthy relationships in the future.