Divorced and want to reconcile...

[dday101798]

I think what Kimmie was trying to ask was, should you get the full blown chance to reconcille and your XH hasn't made any changes to the "issues" that made you feel the right to walk, will you accept him as is the second time around or potentially walk again?

Maybe I'm wrong, but that's my interpretation.

From what you post though, I think with enough healing time and some outside help, you guys can make it. Just for now, NO expectations!

Mar, I may have to run some things past you in coming days as a 'returning' WAS. My XW is starting to act 'weird' as well as her OM. We're supposed to have this 'big talk' soon, so if it's all ok for you? I still don't quite get the WAS mantality in my own world.