Mandy, I don't know what you are hoping for here, I kinda think you are waiting around for him to fall on his arse so you can be there for him...... If that is your desire, I cannot understand that, given how he has done you and your son. With that being said, your XH might very well fall on his arse, but its been my experience that those people would rather die a slow and painful death before they would admit doing wrong. It takes an extra special person to be able to do that. My advice to you is to move on with your life, let your son and him work their own relationship out and let whatever happen, happen.
