I just have to vent. I was just stewing on it over a cigar and a little Woodford Reserve and I don't like it.
Earlier today, I spoke to my W's brother or my BIL. He called to complain about family stuff. I just listened and offered my opinion. He followed with "you know J----- I know I can talk to you, you're level headed calm and have a sense about you." I already knew the answer but I asked anyway. I asked him why do you think I'm cheating on your sister and why will you look down on me in the future? He wanted to know where I got that. I told him A----- said this a few weeks ago when this stuff started. I told him she said her "people" think this as well. Well I talked to her sister for nearly two hours which is frowned upon and I know she's in BR's corner as are her folks.
What I'm angry about is the lies. I know the "don't believe anything they say...." but for awhile, I did believe people I thought believed in me thought I was crap. One by one, I'm bumping into people who say the opposite of what the W said. Her best friend told me contrary to saying I'm cheating, she tried to convince her otherwise. I'm also finding out others who she claims said bad stuff about me didn't.
In a way, that's good, I think. That means she's trying to justify something she find abhorent in her mind. I hear her snoring outside my office right now. I wish she was in our bed snoring as much as I hated that noise. I guess I'll go back outside and finish my stogie and drink plan my menu for the week and retire. I'll leave my anger outside and on this board.
I had to vent and think.
p.s. I try to make Sunday dinners based on where Nascar is running. Usually I can come up with something. Lowes motor speedway, pulled pork. Homestead, seafood with key lime pie for desert. I don't have a clue what the signature cuisine for Phoenix is. Any ideas????
