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Glad to see your H kept it together and is being supportive during this time'
I have a 14 year old D also
she is a good kid
and the MLC has not affected her for the worse
at least as far as I can see
I have tried very hard to keep a good and respectful R wioth her and after xh left it seemed easier in some ways to develop that
I try to give her mostly positive affirmations and I sent her to a christian school and youth group
I think that has helped her the most to fit in
sometimes she has meltdowns but that is a female/and teeneage issue
I try to listen when I can and set aside talk time for her
peace


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow