Thanks for the prayers D! And thanks for sharing your experiences Grace! Neither my D14 or her friend were using anything(drugs/alcohol). They are both good kids who didn't make the smartest choice and didn't know there was a curfew they were breaking. My H and I sat down with D14 and let her tell us what happened and H did most of the questionning and I have to say he remained calm and carig through the whole thing, which I know wasn't easy.

At first yesterday H pulled away and didn't go with the rest of us to D14's choir pancake breakfast fundraiser-she and her guy friend had to work it for the morning. H didn't want to go and pick D14 up afterwards so I did it alone. He pulled it together when we sat D14 down for some talking.

So in some respects I feel like H sees us more as a family unit, he's been more attentive to the girls since this happened and pulling a bit more weight shuttling them around. Not sure how long this will last, but for now its a nice development.


M44 H46 T21 Married 16y
D14 D12
Bomb 12/08(EA), (PA/Separation)1/09 to 5/09
Home/MC 5/09 to 12/09
Leaves 12/09 Files for Divorce
Divorce final 6/30/10.