Thanks Mish. Well H had D13 over the weekend and we have a pool and me and my son tried 4 times to cover it and every time it kept falling right back into pool. When he called I mentioned it and he said when he dropped D13 off on Sunday he would put it on.

That was the first thing he has done since he has been gone. We had a very civil coversation and he was even joking around a bit saying I owe him. He also told me he went back on meds. 2 weeks ago.

D13 came back out of the house and asked him if I could go with them to the circus next weekend with them and he said we'll see (laughing). He said he didn't know if he could afford it which was also a joke because he makes really good money and left me with the bills. He said I will let you know on Sunday (the day they are going) while laughing and he wasn't being sarcastic either. That is his way of joking around.

She said to him "Daddy, mommy never got to go to the circus with us because she was always working, can she come this time?" I jokeing said no I never got to go cause I was always working and would have loved to go with them all the years they went. Guess I messed up Mish.


M 41
H 35
D 12
S 18
Separated 11/08